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Highly Awaited Books of November 2020

1. The Princess Knight by G.A. Aiken

The Princess Knight by G.A. Aiken

Gemma Smythe dedicated her life to the glory of battle. With her fellow War Monks, she worshipped the war gods, rained destruction on her enemies, and raised the dead when the fancy took her. Until her sister Keeley became the prophesied Blacksmith Queen, and Gemma broke faith with her order to journey to the Amichai Mountain and fight by Keeley’s side. 

The Amichai warriors are an unruly, never-to-be-tamed lot, especially their leader-in-waiting, Quinn. But when the War Monks declare support for Gemma’s ruthless younger sister Beatrix, the immaturity of her key ally is the least of Gemma’s problems. She has to get to the grand masters, dispel their grudge against her, and persuade them to fight for Keeley and justice. If her conviction can’t sway them, perhaps Quinn’s irritating, irreverent, clearly unhinged, ferocity will win the day . . .

2. The Cul-de-Sac War by Melissa Ferguson

The Cul-de-Sac War by Melissa Ferguson

Bree Leake doesn’t want to be tied down. She’s had more jobs than she can count, and she plans to move as soon as the curtains fall on her less-than-minor stage role at The Barter–the oldest live performance theater in the US.

But just when it’s time to move on again, Bree’s parents make her an offer: hold steady for a full year, and they will give her the one thing she’s always wanted–her grandmother’s house.

Her dreams are coming true . . . until life at the theater throws her some curve balls.

And then there’s Chip McBride–her handsome and infuriating next-door neighbor.

Chip just might be the only person whose stubborn streak can match Bree’s. She would move heaven and earth to have him off her cul-de-sac and out of her life, but according to the bargain she’s struck, she can’t move out of her house and away from the man who’s making her life miserable.

So begins Bree’s obsessive new mission: to drive Chip out of the neighborhood–and fast.

Bree isn’t the only one who’s a tad competitive, and Chip is more than willing to fight fire with fire. But as their pranks escalate, the line between love and hate starts to blur–and their heated rivalry threatens to take a hilarious, heartwarming, and romantic new turn.

3. The Awakening (The Dragon Heart Legacy #1) by Nora Roberts

The Awakening by Nora RobertsWhen Breen Kelly was a girl, her father would tell her stories of magical places. Now she’s an anxious twenty something mired in student debt and working a job she hates. 

But one day she stumbles upon a shocking discovery: her mother has been hiding an investment account in her name. It has been funded by her long-lost father–and it’s worth nearly four million dollars. 
This newfound fortune would be life-changing for anyone. 
But little does Breen know that when she uses some of the money to journey to Ireland, it will unlock mysteries she couldn’t have imagined. 
Here, she will begin to understand why she kept seeing that silver-haired, elusive man, why she imagined his voice in her head saying Come home, Breen Siobhan. It’s time you came home. Why she dreamed of dragons. 
And where her true destiny lies–through a portal in Galway that takes her to a land of faeries and mermaids, to a man named Keegan, and to the courage in her own heart that will guide her through a powerful, dangerous destiny…

4. Love and Olives by Jenna Evans Welch

Love and Olives by Jenna Evans WelchLiv Varanakis doesn’t have a lot of fond memories of her father, which makes sense–he fled to Greece when she was only eight. What Liv does remember, though, is their shared love for Greek myths and the lost city of Atlantis. 

So when Liv suddenly receives a postcard from her father explaining that National Geographic is funding a documentary about his theories on Atlantis– will she fly out to Greece and help?–Liv jumps at the opportunity. 

But when she arrives to gorgeous Santorini, things are a little…awkward. There are so many questions, so many emotions that flood to the surface after seeing her father for the first time in years. And yet Liv doesn’t want their past to get in the way of a possible reconciliation. She also definitely doesn’t want Theo–her father’s charismatic so-called “protégé”–to witness her struggle .And that means diving into all that Santorini has to offer–the beautiful sunsets, the turquoise water, the hidden caves, and the delicious cuisine. 

But not everything on the Greek island is as perfect as it seems. Because as Liv slowly begins to discover, her father may not have invited her to Greece for Atlantis, but for something much more important.

5. The Office of Historical Corrections: A Novella and Short Stories by Danielle Evans

The Office of Historical Corrections by Danielle EvansDanielle Evans is widely acclaimed for her blisteringly smart voice and x-ray insights into complex human relationships. 

With The Office of Historical Corrections, Evans zooms in on particular moments and relationships in her characters’ lives in a way that allows them to speak to larger issues of race, culture, and history. 

She introduces us to Black and multiracial characters who are experiencing the universal confusions of lust and love, and getting walloped by grief–all while exploring how history haunts us, personally and collectively. 

Ultimately, she provokes us to think about the truths of American history–about who gets to tell them, and the cost of setting the record straight.

In “Boys Go to Jupiter,” a white college student tries to reinvent herself after a photo of her in a Confederate-flag bikini goes viral. In “Richard of York Gave Battle in Vain,” a photojournalist is forced to confront her own losses while attending an old friend’s unexpectedly dramatic wedding. 

And in the eye-opening title novella, a black scholar from Washington, DC, is drawn into a complex historical mystery that spans generations and puts her job, her love life, and her oldest friendship at risk.

6. A Promised Land by Barack Obama

A Promised Land by Barack ObamaIn the stirring, highly anticipated first volume of his presidential memoirs, Barack Obama tells the story of his improbable odyssey from young man searching for his identity to leader of the free world, describing in strikingly personal detail both his political education and the landmark moments of the first term of his historic presidency–a time of dramatic transformation and turmoil.

Obama takes readers on a compelling journey from his earliest political aspirations to the pivotal Iowa caucus victory that demonstrated the power of grassroots activism to the watershed night of November 4, 2008, when he was elected 44th president of the United States, becoming the first African American to hold the nation’s highest office.

Reflecting on the presidency, he offers a unique and thoughtful exploration of both the awesome reach and the limits of presidential power, as well as singular insights into the dynamics of U.S. partisan politics and international diplomacy. 

Obama brings readers inside the Oval Office and the White House Situation Room, and to Moscow, Cairo, Beijing, and points beyond.

7. Notorious (Rebels of the Ton #1)

Notorious by Minerva SpencerThe cure for a willful wife . . .Drusilla Clare is full of opinions about why a woman shouldn’t marry. 

But that doesn’t stop the rush of desire she feels each time her best friend’s brother, notorious rake Gabriel Marlington, crosses her path. So imagine her dismay when she finds herself in the clutches of a scoundrel, only to be rescued by Gabriel himself. 

And when Gabriel’s heartless–and heart-pounding–proposal comes, it’s enough to make Dru’s formidable resolve crumble.  She’s sharp-tongued, exasperating–and due to one careless moment–about to become his wife. 

Still, something about Drusilla has Gabriel intrigued. First there’s the delicious flush of her skin every time she delivers a barb–and then the surprisingly sensual feel of her in his arms. Gabriel even finds himself challenged by her unusual philosophies. 

When he discovers a clandestine rival for Dru’s affection, his temperature flares even hotter. But the real threat to their happiness is one neither of the newlyweds sees coming. 

If they’re to save their future–and their very lives–they’ll need to trust in each other and their growing love.

8. Instant Karma by Marissa Meyer

Instant Karma by Marissa MeyerChronic overachiever Prudence Daniels is always quick to cast judgment on the lazy, rude, and arrogant residents of her coastal town. 

Her dreams of karmic justice are fulfilled when, after a night out with her friends, she wakes up with the sudden ability to cast instant karma on those around her. 

Pru giddily makes use of the power, punishing everyone from public vandals to mean gossips, but there is one person on whom her powers consistently backfire: Quint Erickson, her slacker of a lab partner. Quint is annoyingly cute and impressively noble, especially when it comes to his work with the rescue center for local sea animals. 

When Pru resigns herself to working at the rescue center for extra credit, she begins to uncover truths about baby otters, environmental upheaval, and romantic crossed signals–not necessarily in that order. Her newfound karmic insights reveal how thin the line is between virtue and vanity, generosity and greed . . . love and hate… and fate.

9. Hidden in Plain Sight (William Warwick Novels #2) by Jeffrey Archer

Hidden in Plain Sight by Jeffrey ArcherWilliam Warwick has been promoted to Detective Sergeant, but his promotion means that he, along with the rest of his team, have been reassigned to the Drugs Squad.

They are immediately tasked with apprehending Khalil Rashidi, a notorious drug dealer, who operates his extensive network out of South London.
As the investigation progresses, William runs into enemies old and new: Adrian Heath, from his school days, now a street dealer who he convinces to turn informer; and financier Miles Faulkner, who makes a mistake that could finally see him put behind bars.
Meanwhile, William and his fiancée Beth enjoy making preparations for their upcoming wedding, though an unpleasant surprise awaits them at the altar.
As William’s team closes the net around a criminal network like none they have ever faced before, he devises a trap they would never expect, one that is hidden in plain sight . . .

 

10. Frozen 2 Dangerous Secrets: The Story of Iduna and Agnarr by Mari Mancusi

Frozen 2 Dangerous Secrets: The Story of Iduna and Agnarr by Mari MancusiEver since the day the forest fell, Arendellians have despised and distrusted Northuldra with a vengeance. No matter that the Northuldra-along with some of Arendelle’s own-have been trapped in the Enchanted Forest behind an impenetrable wall of mist since the day of the battle.

Iduna doesn’t know why the mist refuses to part, or why it descended to begin with. The only clear thing is that she must keep her identity from everyone, even Agnarr. Her life depends on it.

Fortunately for her, Agnarr doesn’t know that Iduna is the Northuldra girl he saw seemingly flying on a gust of wind all those years ago, the day of the celebration turned disaster. The day Agnarr lost his father, the king. The day Agnarr himself almost died.

What Agnarr does know is that Iduna is a true ally in the face of his royal responsibilities and the expectations of an overbearing council and a well-meaning regent who will rule in Agnarr’s place until he turns twenty-one and assumes the Arendellian throne.

As Iduna and Agnarr grow ever closer, however, friendship is no longer enough. If only falling for each other didn’t mean risking their futures: Iduna’s as a hidden-in-plain-sight citizen of Arendelle, and Agnarr’s as imminent king.

But for a chance at true love, the risk might be worth taking

11. The Law of Innocence by Michael Connelly

The Law of Innocence by Michael ConnellyOn the night he celebrates a big win, defense attorney Mickey Haller is pulled over by police, who find the body of a former client in the trunk of his Lincoln. 

Haller is immediately charged with murder but can’t post the exorbitant $5 million bail slapped on him by a vindictive judge.

Mickey elects to represent himself and is forced to mount his defense from his jail cell in the Twin Towers Correctional Center in downtown Los Angeles. 

All the while he needs to look over his shoulder–as an officer of the court he is an instant target, and he makes few friends when he reveals a corruption plot within the jail.

But the bigger plot is the one against him. Haller knows he’s been framed, whether by a new enemy or an old one. 

As his trusted team, including his half-brother, Harry Bosch, investigates, Haller must use all his skills in the courtroom to counter the damning evidence against him.

Even if he can obtain a not-guilty verdict, Mickey understands that it won’t be enough. In order to be truly exonerated, he must find out who really committed the murder and why. 

12. Murder in Old Bombay by Nev March

Murder in Old Bombay by Nev MarchIn 1892, Bombay is the center of British India. Nearby, Captain Jim Agnihotri lies in Poona military hospital recovering from a skirmish on the wild northern frontier, with little to do but re-read the tales of his idol, Sherlock Holmes, and browse the daily papers. 

The case that catches Captain Jim’s attention is being called the crime of the century: Two women fell from the busy university’s clock tower in broad daylight. 

Moved by Adi, the widower of one of the victims — his certainty that his wife and sister did not commit suicide — Captain Jim approaches the Parsee family and is hired to investigate what happened that terrible afternoon. But in a land of divided loyalties, asking questions is dangerous. 

Captain Jim’s investigation disturbs the shadows that seem to follow the Framji family and triggers an ominous chain of events. 

And when lively Lady Diana Framji joins the hunt for her sisters’ attackers, Captain Jim’s heart isn’t safe, either.

Based on a true story, and set against the vibrant backdrop of colonial India, Murder in Old Bombay, brings this tumultuous historical age to life.

13. Little Threats by Emily Schultz

Little Threats by Emily SchultzIn the summer of 1993, twin sisters Kennedy and Carter Wynn are embracing the grunge era and testing every limit in their privileged Richmond suburb. But Kennedy’s teenage rebellion goes too far when, after a night of partying in the woods, her best friend, Haley, is murdered, and suspicion quickly falls upon Kennedy.

She can’t remember anything about the night in question, and this, along with the damning testimony from a college boy who both Kennedy and Haley loved, is enough to force Kennedy to enter a guilty plea.
In 2008, Kennedy is released into a world that has moved on without her. Carter has grown distant as she questions Kennedy’s innocence, and begins a relationship with someone who could drive the sisters apart forever.
The twins’ father, Gerry, is eager to protect the family’s secrets and fragile bonds. But Kennedy’s return brings the tragedy back to the surface, along with a whole new wave of media. When a crime show host comes to town asking questions, believing the murder wasn’t as simple as it seemed, murky memories of Haley’s death come to light.
As new suspects emerge and the suburban woods finally give up their secrets, two families may be destroyed again.

14. Nucleation by Kimberly Ungay

Nucleation by Kimberly UngerHelen Vectorvich just botched first contact. And she did it in both virtual reality and outer space. Only the most elite Far Reaches deep-space pilots get to run waldos: robots controlled from thousands of light years away via neural integration and quantum entanglement. Helen and her navigator were heading the construction of a wormhole gate that would connect Earth to the stars . . . until a routine system check turned deadly.

As nasty rumors swarm around her, and overeager junior pilots jockey to take her place, Helen makes a startling discovery: microscopic alien life is devouring their corporate equipment. Is the Scale just mindless, extra-terrestrial bacteria? Or is it working–and killing–with a purpose?

While Helen struggles to get back into the pilot’s chair, and to communicate with the Scale, someone–or something–is trying to sabotage the Far Reaches project once and for all. They’ll have to get through Helen first.

15. Rent A Boyfriend by Gloria Chao

Rent A Boyfriend by Gloria ChaoChloe Wang is nervous to introduce her parents to her boyfriend, because the truth is, she hasn’t met him yet either. 

She hired him from Rent for Your ‘Rents, a company specializing in providing fake boyfriends trained to impress even the most traditional Asian parents.

Drew Chan’s passion is art, but after his parents cut him off for dropping out of college to pursue his dreams, he became a Rent for Your ‘Rents employee to keep a roof over his head. 

Luckily, learning protocols like “Type C parents prefer quiet, kind, zero-PDA gestures” comes naturally to him.

When Chloe rents Drew, the mission is simple: convince her parents fake Drew is worthy of their approval so they’ll stop pressuring her to accept a proposal from Hongbo, the wealthiest (and slimiest) young bachelor in their tight-knit Asian American community.

But when Chloe starts to fall for the real Drew–who, unlike his fake persona, is definitely not ‘rent-worthy–her carefully curated life begins to unravel. 

Can she figure out what she wants before she loses everything?

16. Divided Fire by Jennifer San Filippo

Divided Fire by Jennifer San FilippoMiren has never allowed jealousy of her sister’s magic keep her from taking care of Kesia, and Kesia has always depended on her big sister.

When Kesia is kidnapped, Miren will do anything to get her back–even team up with her sister’s aristocratic and seemingly ineffectual boyfriend.

Neither sister had ever left their small fishing village before, and now they are plunged into the wider world, minor players in a war between nations.

Each sister faces external and internal perils, and each finds surprising allies and unexpected strengths.

How will the two find each other again?

And what will become of them if they don’t succeed?

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Rich Dad Poor Dad Book Quotes Part 3

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“The most important specialized skills are sales and marketing. The ability to sell—to communicate to another human being, be it a customer, employee, boss, spouse, or child—is the base skill of personal success.”

“It’s how you handle failure that makes the difference in one’s life.”

“Communication skills such as writing, speaking, and negotiating are crucial to a life of success. These are skills I work on constantly, attending courses or buying educational resources to expand my knowledge.”

“Rich dad encouraged Mike and me to know a little about a lot. He encouraged us to work with people smarter than we were and to bring smart people together to work as a team. Today it would be called a synergy of professional specialties.”

“The better you are at communicating, negotiating, and handling your fear of rejection, the easier life is.”

“People are so afraid of losing that they lose”

“A savvy investor knows that the seemingly worst of times is actually the best of times to make money. When everyone else is too afraid to act, they pull the trigger and are rewarded.”

“The main management skills needed for success are:

1.Management of cash flow

2.Management of systems

3.Management of people”

“Be a little greedy. It’s the best cure for laziness.”

“What I know makes me money. What I don’t know loses me money. Every time I have been arrogant, I have lost money. Because when I’m arrogant, I truly believe that what I don’t know is not important,”

“There is gold everywhere. Most people are not trained to see it.”

“Money is made on information. You want to hear about the next boom, get in, and get out before the next bust.”

“It is what you know that is your greatest wealth. It is what you do not know that is your greatest risk.”

“Master a formula and then learn a new one: the power of learning quickly”

“You become what you study.” In other words, be careful what you learn, because your mind is so powerful that you become what you put in your head.”

“I constantly remind people to not focus on their product, service, or widget, but to focus on developing management skills. The three most important management skills necessary to start your own business are management of:

1.Cash flow

2.People

3.Personal time”

“Finding what people miss is key to any success.”

There are 2 types of people. People who are too busy to take care of their wealth, and people too busy to take care of their health.

The words “I can’t afford it” shut down your brain. “How can I afford it?” opens up possibilities, excitement, and dreams.

“The rich know that savings are only used to create more money, not to pay bills.”

“If you’re not tough inside, the world will always push you around”

“I only play with money I can afford to lose.”

“People management. The real skill is to manage and reward the people who are smarter than you in some technical area.”

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Rich Dad Poor Dad Book Quotes Part 2

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“By not fully understanding money, the vast majority of people allow its awesome power to control them.”

“If you find you have dug yourself into a hole… stop digging.”

“Schools were designed to produce good employees, instead of employers.”

“When it comes to money, high emotions tend to lower financial intelligence.”

“Most never become what the investment world calls ‘a sophisticated investor.’ And the best investments are usually first sold to sophisticated investors, who then turn around and sell them to the people playing it safe.”

“The real tragedy is that the lack of early financial education is what creates the risk faced by average middle-class people. The reason they have to play it safe is because their financial positions are tenuous at best. Their balance sheets are not balanced. Instead, they are loaded with liabilities and have no real assets that generate income. Typically, their only source of income is their paycheck. Their livelihood becomes entirely dependent on their employer. So when genuine “deals of a lifetime” come along, these people can’t take advantage of them because they are working so hard, are taxed to the max, and are loaded with debt.”

“Employees make their business owner or the shareholders rich, not themselves. Your efforts and success will help provide for the owner’s success and retirement.”

“Most people work from January to May just for the government.”

“Wealth measures how much money your money is making and, therefore, your financial survivability.”

“Have the excess cash flow from your assets reinvested. The more money that goes into my asset column, the more my asset column grows. The more my assets grow, the more my cash flow grows.”

“Keep expenses low, reduce liabilities, and diligently build a base of solid assets.”

“Begin acquiring assets that you love. If you don’t love it, you won’t take care of it.”

“Start minding your own business. Keep your daytime job, but start buying real assets, not liabilities.”

“The better I was at understanding the accounting and cash management, the better I would be at analyzing investments and eventually starting and building my own company.”

“Once a dollar goes into your asset column, it becomes your employee. The best thing about money is that it works 24 hours a day and can work for generations.”

“Build your asset column first. Then the income generated from the asset column will buy you luxuries.”

“A small amount can grow into a large amount. It is a matter of understanding financial statements, investment strategies, a sense of the market, and the laws.”

“The greater your financial intelligence, the easier it is to tell whether a deal is good. It’s your intelligence that can spot a bad deal, or make a bad deal good.”

“It is not gambling if you know what you’re doing. It is gambling if you’re just throwing money into a deal and praying. The idea in anything is to use your technical knowledge, wisdom, and love of the game to cut the odds down, to lower the risk.”

“I look at money much like my game of tennis. I play hard, make mistakes, correct, make more mistakes, correct, and get better. If I lose the game, I reach across the net, shake my opponent’s hand, smile, and say, ‘See you next Saturday.”

“Financial intelligence is a synergy of accounting, investing, marketing, and law. Combine those four technical skills and making money with money is easier than most people would believe.”

“You want to know a little about a lot” was rich dad’s suggestion.”

“I recommend to young people to seek work for what they will learn, more than what they will earn. Look down the road at what skills they want to acquire before choosing a specific profession and before getting trapped in the Rat Race.”

“The question I often ask people is, ‘Where is this daily activity taking you?’”

“If they tell me, “I only do what I am interested in,” I say, “I’m not interested in going to the gym, but I go because I want to feel better and live longer.”

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Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki Book Quotes Part 1

“One dad would say, ‘The love of money is the root of all evil.’ The other said, ‘The lack of money is the root of all evil.’”

“As a process, choosing for myself turned out to be much more valuable in the long run than simply accepting or rejecting a single point of view.”

“One of the reasons the rich get richer, the poor get poorer, and the middle class struggles in debt is that the subject of money is taught at home, not in school.”

“One dad had a habit of saying, ‘I can’t afford it.’ The other dad forbade those words to be used. He insisted I ask, ‘How can I afford it?’”

“Proper physical exercise increases your chances for health, and proper mental exercise increases your chances for wealth.”

One dad recommended, “Study hard so you can find a good company to work for.” The other recommended, “Study hard so you can find a good company to buy.”

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One said, “When it comes to money, play it safe. Don’t take risks.” The other said, “Learn to manage risk.”

“One believed, “Our home is our largest investment and our greatest asset.” The other believed, “My house is a liability, and if your house is your largest investment, you’re in trouble.”

“One dad taught me how to write an impressive resumé so I could find a good job. The other taught me how to write strong business and financial plans so I could create jobs.”

“Choosing not to listen to my highly educated dad’s advice and attitude about money was a painful decision, but it was a decision that shaped the rest of my life.”

“Money is one form of power. But what is more powerful is financial education. Money comes and goes, but if you have the education about how money works, you gain power over it and can begin building wealth.”

“People go to school and never learned how money works, so they spend their lives working for money.”

“Opportunities come and go. Being able to know when to make quick decisions is an important skill.”

“Most of the time, life does not talk to you. It just sort of pushes you around. Each push is life saying, ‘Wake up. There’s something I want you to learn.”

“If you learn life’s lessons, you will do well. If not, life will just continue to push you around.”

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“Life pushes all of us around. Some people give up and others fight. A few learn the lesson and move on. They welcome life pushing them around. To these few people, it means they need and want to learn something. They learn and move on. Most quit, and a few like you fight.”

“Most will spend the best years of their lives working for money, not really understanding what it is they are working for.”

“When it comes to money, most people want to play it safe and feel secure. So passion does not direct them. Fear does.”

“It’s fear that keeps most people working at a job: the fear of not paying their bills, the fear of being fired, the fear of not having enough money, and the fear of starting over. That’s the price of studying to learn a profession or trade, and then working for money. Most people become a slave to money—and then get angry at their boss.”

“You’re taxed when you earn. You’re taxed when you spend. You’re taxed when you save. You’re taxed when you die.”

“They think that more money will solve the problem and don’t realize that it’s their lack of financial education that is the problem.”

“Their vision is too narrow. Most people never see the trap they are in.”

“Every person has a weak and needy part of their soul that can be bought, and he knew that every individual also had a part of their soul that was resilient and could never be bought.”

“People’s lives are forever controlled by two emotions: FEAR and GREED.”

“Money Trap Pattern: Get up, go to work, pay bills. (Cycle goes on) earn more money, and the spending just increases.”

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“The main cause of poverty or financial struggle is fear and ignorance, not the economy or the government or the rich.”

“Fear pushes you out the door, and desire calls to you. That’s the trap.”

“Once a person stops searching for information and self-knowledge, ignorance sets in.”

“School is important. You go to school to learn a skill or profession to become a contributing member of society. Every culture needs teachers, doctors, mechanics, artists, cooks, businesspeople, police officers, firefighters, and soldiers. Schools train them so society can thrive and flourish,” said rich dad. “Unfortunately, for many people school is the end, not the beginning.”

“To spend your life living in fear, never exploring your dreams, is cruel. To work hard for money, thinking that it will buy you things that will make you happy is also cruel. To wake up in the middle of the night terrified about paying bills is a horrible way to live. To live a life dictated by the size of a paycheck is not really living a life. Thinking that a job makes you secure is lying to yourself.”

“It is ignorance about money that causes so much greed and fear.”

“History proves that great civilizations collapse when the gap between the haves and have-nots is too great. We haven’t learned from history. We only memorize historical dates and names, not the lesson.”

“Learn to use your emotions to think, not think with your emotions”

“Confronting fear, weaknesses, and neediness by choosing our own thoughts is the way out.”

“Instead of just getting up and going to work because not having the money to pay your bills is scaring you, ask yourself, ‘Is working harder at this the best solution to this problem?’ Most people are too afraid to rationally think things through and instead run out the door to a job they hate. The Tar Baby (bills at the end of the month) is in control.”

“A job is only a short-term solution to a long-term problem.”

“Money controls their lives, or should I say the fear and ignorance about money controls it”

“The rich know that money is an illusion, truly like the carrot for the donkey.”

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“The avoidance of money is just as psychotic as being attached to money.”

“Money is not the answer to everything. There are rich people who are more fearful of becoming poor. Of losing it all.”

“Emotions are what make us human. The word ‘emotion’ stands for ‘energy in motion.’ Be truthful about your emotions and use your mind and emotions in your favor, not against yourself.”

“Just be an observer, not a reactor, to your emotions. Most people do not know that it’s their emotions that are doing the thinking. Your emotions are your emotions, but you have got to learn to do your own thinking.”

“If the fear of not having enough money arises, instead of immediately running out to get a job, they instead might ask themselves this question: ‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear over the long run?’ In my opinion, the answer is no. A job is really a short-term solution to a long-term problem.”

“I want to teach you to master the power of money, instead of being afraid of it. They don’t teach that in school and, if you don’t learn it, you become a slave to money.”

“Too many people are too focused on money and not on their greatest wealth, their education.”

“If people are prepared to be flexible, keep an open mind and learn, they will grow richer and richer despite tough changes.”

“If you think money will solve problems, you will have a rough ride. Intelligence solves problems and produces money. Money without financial intelligence is money soon gone.”

“Most people fail to realize that in life, it’s not how much money you make. It’s how much money you keep.”

“If you want to be rich, you need to be financially literate.”

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“If you are going to build the Empire State Building, the first thing you need to do is dig a deep hole and pour a strong foundation. If you are going to build a home in the suburbs, all you need to do is pour a six-inch slab of concrete. Most people, in their drive to get rich, are trying to build an Empire State Building on a six-inch slab.”

“Accounting is possibly the most confusing, boring subject in the world, but if you want to be rich long-term, it could be the most important subject.”

“An asset puts money in my pocket. A liability takes money out of my pocket.”

“Illiteracy, both in words and numbers, is the foundation of financial struggle. If people are having difficulties financially, there is something that they don’t understand, either in words or numbers.”

“In financial reporting, reading numbers is looking for the plot, the story of where the cash is flowing.”

“It is the cash flow that tells the story of how a person handles their money.”

“Money only accentuates the cash-flow pattern running in your head. If your pattern is to spend everything you get, most likely an increase in cash will just result in an increase in spending. Thus, the saying, “A fool and his money is one big party.”

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“What is missing from their education is not how to make money, but how to manage money. It’s called financial aptitude—what you do with the money once you make it, how to keep people from taking it from you, how to keep it longer, and how to make that money work hard for you.”

“Most people don’t understand why they struggle financially because they don’t understand cash flow. A person can be highly educated, professionally successful, and financially illiterate. These people often work harder than they need to because they learned how to work hard, but not how to have their money work hard for them.”

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Charming Falls Apart by Angela Terry Book Quotes

Charming Falls Apart by Angela Terry Book Quotes

“There is a wedding to cancel. There is job hunting to do. There is a birthday dinner to attend.There is the fact that I am thirty-five years old and my life has crumbled around me.”

“Though I can’t completely start over at the bottom of the ladder; I have bills to pay and self-esteem to raise.”

“When Kate is in a good mood, she’s my funny little comrade who makes me laugh harder than anyone else with her quirky and often wry observations and humor; but when feeling cornered or defensive, her spikes go up, and one must handle her with care.”

“Get up, dress up, show up”

“I’ve gone from numb survival mode to realizing everything I’ve lost that I’ll never get back. Everything I worked hard for—my job, my relationship, my friends—poof! All gone. For the first time in my life, I’m lost.”

“Tomorrow is another day,” she says, while pouring more champagne into my glass. “Tonight is all about celebrating thank-god-that-bastard’s-out-of-your-life, okay?” She clinks her glass against my full one.”

“Did you schedule your life around him? Did he do the same for you?

“Commit to the process”

“Who was Allison before Neil? Who is Allison after Neil? What do I want from my next relationship?”

“Just because you’re good at something, if you’re not interested in it, what’s the point?”

“What attracted you to your current job? What do you like about your job? What don’t you like? What do people tell you you’re good at? What do you do in your free time as opposed to the nine-to-five? If you’re still at a loss, then make a list of what you liked to do as a child! What did you dream your life would look like?”

“I notice his attractiveness the same way I admire a nice pair of heels at Nordstrom—nice to look at, but something I just can’t afford right now.”

“There are two choices: being utterly depressed in a hole or viewing this as an opportunity.”

“Losing my career of twelve years and my boyfriend of five years along with one of my best friends was just too much. It just felt like everything I worked hard for and believed in and loved all disappeared in one day.”

“Jordan has been awesome and the best friend that a girl could have, but, weirdly, there’s something about a stranger’s perspective and, especially, Eric’s tough love approach that has given me the extra push I needed.”

“When Neil first broke up with me, he pulled the rug out from under our relationship; but with this revelation, he’s now destroyed the entire foundation. I struggle to breathe normally. Okay, maybe I don’t want to know everything.”

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11 Gift Ideas for Book Lovers Aside from Books

11 Gift Ideas for Book Lovers Aside from Books

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No idea what to gift your book lover friend aside from books?

Then you’ve come to the right place.

Whether it be a birthday present to your best friend, a Christmas gift to your sister, or a Valentine’s gift to your girlfriend, you can never go wrong with the following bookish items.

1. Book-shaped Lamp

This book-shaped foldable mini LED lamp produces a warm light perfect for relaxing evenings.

It has a usage time of up to 5 hours and charging time of 2 hours.

Any book lover would love to receive this lamp as a gift.

2. Cushion Cover with Book Pocket

This unique combination of cushion cover and book pocket will surely put smiles on any bibliophile reading past the bedtime.

It not only protects your book, but also protects your cushion. Double protection!

3. Book-shaped MacBook Case

Made of PU Leather and comes with a zipper, this stylish MacBook case is sure to be on top of any book lover’s wishlist.

You won’t go wrong gifting this book-shaped MacBook case to your favorite bookworm.

4. Bookish Pillowcase

These bookish pillowcases for book lovers are perfect for reading marathons and can also be used as an item to add in your bookstagram photos to look lovely and put-together.

They’re also perfect for gifts to fellow book lovers as a birthday gift, Christmas gift, Valentine’s day gift, anniversary present, and other special occasions. 

5. Books and Fashion Box

Why not get both book and clothes?

This books and Fashion box includes a book and 2 or 3 pieces of clothing items. Jackets, boots, denim, T-shirt, blouse, or accessories depending on the season.

6. Mini Bookstore DIY Set

This mini bookstore DIY set is made of wood and paper. It includes LED lights for the lamps that come with it as well.

This mini bookstore DIY set is my best choice as a gift to any book lover.

7. Feather Bookmark Set

You can never go wrong with a bookmark. Every reader needs one.

This feather bookmark set contains 30 pieces so it’ll be a very long time before you run out of bookmarks.

8. Enchanted Reader Eyeshadow Palette

If the bibliophile you’re gifting loves makeup, then this Enchanted Reader eyeshadow palette will surely bring a smile from ear to ear.

This eyeshadow palette is a series of 4 colors, pink, orange, blue, and green with matte and shimmer.

9. Harry Potter: The Illustrated Collection Boxed Set

Gorgeously illustrated in full color, the first three books in Rowling’s beloved Harry Potter series — “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, and Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban” — are collected in this set. 

Fans of Harry Potter will jump with joy to receive this Harry Potter: The Illustrated Collection Boxed Set as a gift.

10. Cute Cat Mug

A bookworm loves to have a hot drink while reading. Be it coffee or tea or cocoa, this cute cat mug will come in handy.

This ceramic mug comes with a lid to protect your drink. It is available in purple, blue, pink, and yellow.

11. Vintage Stamp Set

Personalize your things with this rubber stamp set.

Made of wood and rubber, this Vintage Number and Alphabet Wooden Rubber Stamp Set comes with a wooden box.

I hope you were able to find the perfect gift. If still in doubt, you can always choose a book to give.

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Tips on How to Spend a Stress-Free Christmas: Christmas Shopping, Christmas Dinner, Baking Cookies & Decorating

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Tips on How to Spend a Stress-Free Christmas: Christmas Shopping, Christmas Dinner, Baking Cookies & Decorating

Christmas is one of the most joyous times of the year.

Unfortunately, for a lot of people, including myself, Christmas was always filled with stress.

How to get all the shopping done when I worked full time was a chore in itself.

Then there was the baking, taking kids to see Santa Claus, Christmas Eve festivities, gifts for co-workers at the office and others who helped me during the year as well as what I often referred to as the “ultimate nightmare” – yes, the Christmas dinner.

I watched way too many Christmas movies where everything turned out perfect, including the plum pudding.

I wanted a Christmas like those seen in the movies and I often got one – ever see “National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation?” Yep, everything that could go wrong would go wrong.

The stress that built up around Christmas time was anything but yuletide joy. I would often lament “I can’t wait for it to be over.”

Then something happened to me to make me realize that I was looking at Christmas all wrong.

I remembered the work my parents and grandparents put into Christmas.

My great grandmother had none of the modern conveniences that I had yet still managed to make not only a large Christmas dinner for family and extended family, but also a huge Christmas Eve dinner as well. And she never had to rush to the doctor to get tranquilizers before or after.

In fact, the Christmases of my childhood are filled with good memories. I wanted my children to also enjoy those type of Christmases.

True, I work full time and do not have time to bake and cook all day – but my great grandmother had no refrigerator. I think I am ahead of the game.

I decided to take the stress out of Christmas and streamline it so that my family and I could truly enjoy the spirit of the season. And I succeeded.

Christmas once again became a joyous event that everyone, including me, could look forward to with anticipation. All it took was to take advantage of modern conveniences that my great-grandmother did not have and a bit of organization skills that she obviously did have.

I combined the old with the new and came up with a stress-free Christmas.

If I can manage to take the stress out of Christmas and get everything done without freaking out and having to spend a few days at a sanitarium, then so can you.

So, take a deep breath, relax, and start reading on how you, too, can take the stress out of Christmas and enjoy this festive and fun holiday.

GIFT SHOPPING

There are two stressors that come into play when it comes to Christmas shopping – the first is having the time to do it and the second is the money that it takes. You can avoid both by following what I learned over the years:

1. Make a list. Write down what you are getting everyone on your Christmas gift list and stick to it. If you have kids, you can see in black and white that you are not cheating one of them out of a gift. Making a list is easy – even Santa Claus does this. And like Santa, make sure that you check it twice. Be sure that you did not leave anyone off the list.

2. Shop early, but not often. Avoid the temptation of going out to get “just a few more things.” This often snowballs into more debt. You made the list, now stick to it. Shopping early is easy to do – just set aside a day to do this. Do not be like my brother and go into a frenzied panic on Christmas Eve.

3. Use the internet. I have not gone “Christmas shopping” in the stores for at least 3 years. This is one way to avoid long lines, angry people who are supposed to be in the spirit of the season and are fighting over toys and harried cashiers. You can order all of your gifts on your list online and have them delivered right to your home. There are many people who are “afraid” of shopping online for fear of identity theft or some other nefarious practice. Yet these are the same people who will toss out credit card invitations in the trash and give their credit card to the waiter at the restaurant who then takes it in the back room. You have more of a chance of identity theft off line than you do online. There are plenty of online stores from which to choose and many of them offer free shipping if you buy everything at one time. Take advantage of this modern marvel.

4. Wrap ’em as you get ’em. Get some wrapping paper, tape and scissors and keep them in a place where they will be undisturbed. It is easier to wrap the gifts as you get them rather than waiting until the last minute, running around the house looking for tape and finding none and having to use super glue as a replacement. Do you have a Dollar Store near you? You can get wrapping paper and rolls of tape there for only one dollar. You can also get those stickers that say “to” and “from” with little pictures of Santa Claus and snowmen on them. Use them.

5. Stick to your budget. This should actually be at the top of the list. Many people get into the frenzy of Christmas shopping as if they forget that they have to actually pay for the stuff. Come up with a budget and stick to it. This will eliminate the stress that can be felt in the Christmases of the future.

6. Use gift cards. Your local drugstore most likely has gift cards that you can give to people such as the mailman, the hairdresser and others who you wish to remember for the holidays. You can also use gift cards to give to office workers. Gift cards may not be the warmest of holiday greetings, but at least you are giving them something and they can use them as they like.

7. Don’t get roped into sales. Many stores have sales around the holidays that are designed to get you into the store. While it is good to shop the sales, spending the night in the car the night before a store opens is not a way to enjoy the joy of the Christmas season. Stores know just how to market and have enticing items at the front of the store, near the cashiers and all over the place that are NOT ON YOUR LIST. So exercise some self control, avoid the huge crowds, sleep in your own bed and avoid “too good to be true” sales.

8. Get stocking stuffers at the drugstore. Your local drugstore has plenty of candy, slippers and other stocking stuffers that are ideal for the little gifts that you want to give to kids and loved ones. You may end up paying a few dollars more for your total purchases, but you can get in and out and save a lot of time. This means less stress.

9. Mail gifts early. Instead of waiting until the last minute and paying five or more times the amount to ship something, mail any gifts early. Better yet, if you shop online, you can have the gifts mailed directly to the recipient. Most online outlets offer wrapping as well.

10. Pay for your gifts with credit cards or use a service like Paypal. These offer a guarantee if the gift does not arrive on time or arrives broken. If you use a debit card, you do not have this protection. This can give you a little bit of assurance when you are buying gifts for Christmas and take some of the stress out of gift buying.

Those are 10 good rules for Christmas shopping without the stress. How long did it take me to do my Christmas shopping this year? 45 minutes. That was the time I spent on the computer making purchases. And it included a quick trip to the drugstore down the street. It could have been done in about 40 minutes, but there was a price check on one of my items.

And, before I forget (and you forget) the most important rule of all: DON’T FORGET THE BATTERIES.

I’ve learned this lesson from many Christmases of the Past when I had to run to the always open convenience store to pick up batteries that cost about five times more than I could have paid at the drugstore.

DECORATING

I used to put up 3 Christmas trees. A Christmas village. A Santa collection and an assortment of ornaments. It took me all day. I always imagined it would be done to the sound of Christmas Carols along with hot cocoa and everyone in a good mood. Instead, it turned into a virtual nightmare.

The year that the 10 foot tall artificial tree fell down after it had been decorated to perfection made me take notice of what I was doing.

It was taking me an entire day to put up a bunch of decorations that I had to then take down again on New Year’s day, by which time I was sick of looking at them. I decided to streamline a bit.

I got rid of the Santa collection as the figures on eBay. I kept the village and streamlined it. I kept the tree that was the Christmas tree my parents bought for my first Christmas. I kept one box of lights.

I kept the Nativity that was also from my first Christmas and one Santa that used to light up and say “ho, ho, ho.” This was also from my first Christmas and scared the living daylights out of me then. It no longer works, but it is a keepsake.

I kept the ornaments and Christmas decorations that actually meant something to me and got rid of the stuff that I picked up at numerous craft shows. I got some plastic boxes to put everything in and it all fits nicely into a storage closet at my condominium, as opposed to taking up half the basement in my old house.

Through the years, I managed to learn that it does not matter if the tree is “perfect.” We have a cat who is going to climb up the tree no matter what we say and it will no longer be perfect. It does not matter if one of the village houses doesn’t light. Some day, I will get around to buying a bulb.

What matters is that I love these decorations and that they all mean something to me.

I have a friend who stresses every year about putting up her village and her trees. The lights on the tree have to be perfect. She spends hours weaving them in and out of the branches.

I think she gets it up before Christmas Eve and takes it down by July. She has not put her village up in five years because she does not have the “perfect” place in which to put it and she is missing a piece. She has all the pieces of the village that we both collected. Hers is perfect, but no one enjoyed it.

So here are some tips on decorating your house in a stress free way for the holidays:

1. Nothing is perfect. There is that old saying about the “best laid plans,” that you’ve heard, right? They always go awry. Do not strive for perfection – you will never get it. Strive for joy. Decorating should be fun and the decorations have some sort of meaning. Unless your house is in some sort of Christmas walk where people are going to come and inspect it, you do not have to worry about anyone but family and friends. And even if my house was in a Christmas Walk, I would still put up my old tree.

2. Set aside an hour for one day to decorate. It shouldn’t take you that long to decorate your house for Christmas. You do not have to use “vintage” like me. You can use pre-lit trees and pre-lit garland and have it done in a lot less time.

3. Get one of those extension outlets that have room for a lot of plugs and use it for a village or your tree. I pack mine with the village so that I am not running around looking for it. I have the roll up “snow” that is used under the village (to give the impression of real snow) and I pack my figures, trees and little ornaments in this snow at the end of the season. I just roll them all up in it and pack them away every year. I haven’t broken anything yet. I have the boxes that the village buildings came in and just put them in there and then pack everything into the same box it has been in for 5 years. I have 9 pieces in my Christmas village. I place them on top of my dresser that I use as a buffet in my kitchen. This year, it took me 15 minutes to set up the entire village. I set out the buildings, arranged them and then arranged all the little people. One house still does not light but one of these days I’ll get a light. It doesn’t matter – my children played with this when they were kids. It means something to me. It isn’t perfect, but what is?

4. Check the lights before you put them on the tree. I do remember my father swearing under his breath as he tried to get masses of untangled lights onto the tree, only to find that half of them wouldn’t light. One unlit bulb is not the end of the world. If you do not have a pre-lit tree, use those big bulbs that are used outdoors for your tree. It will give you tons of light and your tree will look very colorful. If you have a pre-lit tree, check the lights before assembling the tree.

5. Invest in hooks. For years I fashioned hooks out of ribbon and other things around the house because I was always stressed. I finally invested in a package of about 200 hooks for a whopping 50 cents a few years back and still have them. Any ornament that doesn’t have a hook, put one on. The hooks make it easier.

6. Invest in plastic boxes. I know which box has the lights and ornaments. Which has the manger and which has the village. By knowing where everything goes, you can place it in the room that is being decorated with the items. The plastic boxes will hold up through the years as well.

7. When in doubt, add tinsel. Tinsel is that old fashioned ornament that now goes by the name of “icicles.” It is long, streaming bits of magnetic garland, usually gold or silver. It is best on real trees as it does not come off easily. As a matter of fact, it does not come off at all. But as you are going to be putting up the same tree next year, what the heck. The tinsel will give it the finishing touch and cover up any gaps that your cat makes when she tries to climb the tree to knock off ornaments.

8. Skip the “cutting down the tree” thing. A whole day, driving out to the wilderness in the ice cold to cut down a tree like Daniel Boone. If you want a real tree, buy it from a lot. Make sure you water it every day, though, or it will dry out by Christmas. Real trees make a mess on the rug, it took until summer to get the needles out of the carpeting and it was usually too much of a fire hazard to light by Christmas. You can save yourself time, stress and money by getting an artificial, pre-lit Christmas tree.

Of course, if your family enjoys hunting for the tree in the sub zero weather and chopping it down, roping it to the car and hauling it into the house, then by all means, go for it. But only if the entire family enjoys it. Otherwise, you are going to be disappointed when they start complaining of the cold, the needles and how they want to get home to watch TV. This will make you stressed as you, like the character played by Chevy Chase in “National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation” will be disappointed that your family does not share your zest for this outdoor adventure.

9. Light a few Christmas candles to make the place seem more festive. My father used to light pine incense that came out of a log cabin incense burner. No, he wasn’t smoking dope and trying to cover the smell – he just enjoyed the pine scent. Whenever I smell this scent, it reminds me of Christmas as a child. You can do the same for your family with a scented candle from Glade.

Decorating your house should be fun. Ideally, I would like us all to be sitting around, sipping cocoa and singing “Silent Night” as we deck the halls.

Decorating your house does not have to be perfect. Try to lose some of the unattainable goals that you have set for the “perfect decorating experience” and settle into what is real. The important thing is not that all the lights light or that the village is complete, it is the memories that they evoke during Christmas Present. And will evoke in the Christmases Yet To Come.

CHRISTMAS ACTIVITIES

Pick one that the entire family likes and make plans to do it. In our town, we have many Christmas events going on.

When I was little, I went to the parade to see Santa Claus. I went to the mall to see Santa Claus. I went on Christmas Walks to see Santa Claus. I went to the school Christmas Event to see Santa Claus.

As the years went on, I wanted to still do the same type of events. It began to get less fun and more stressful.

I only have one bit of advice in this chapter on Christmas activities. When your children are young, enjoy activities that will instill in them the spirit of joy.

But recognize that as they get older, they will want to form their own memories. Still, this should not dampen your spirit.

Choose an activity that you like – whether it is making a craft at home, participating in caroling or going to a fair and enjoy it. Make sure that you enjoy the Christmas activities as you get older and allow your children to start to grow and make their own memories.

You cannot participate in everything. You do not have to go to every parade and every event offered. Choose those that are fun, not obligatory, and have fun doing it. This is the season to be merry, not stressed.

BAKING COOKIES

There are about 9,000 different recipes online for Christmas cookies. If you feel compelled to bake, follow those that you like.

I make gingerbread cookies once in a while. I make chocolate chips and sprinkle them with red and green sprinkles to give them the Christmas look.

You do not have to labor for hours making dozens of different Christmas cookies that no one likes. You can still have the aroma of fresh baked cookies in your house with one or two recipes. You can even cheat a little.

Here are some tips on how to give your home the Christmas cheer of baking:

1. Use refrigerated dough and put them on a baking sheet. Voila! You have Christmas cookies. Sprinkle them with red and green sprinkles and you are all set.

2. Melt chocolate in the microwave and dip in mini pretzels. Put them on waxed paper and, yes, sprinkle them with red and green sprinkles. These are a tasty treat and easy to bake.

3. Get baked gingerbread men at the bakery and decorate them using pre-made icing that you get at the grocery store. You can even personalize them. Light a gingerbread candle – no one will ever know the difference.

4. Use refrigerated cookie dough and flatten each piece. Insert a maraschino cherry in the center and fold up the sides. Bake them in the oven as directed. Then, of course, sprinkle them with red and green sprinkles.

5. Get graham crackers, some candy and a can of white frosting. Make “gingerbread houses” with the kids. They will enjoy doing this and the “gingerbread” will not fall apart. It is an easy way to make these houses.

The point is that you do not have to knock yourself out to bake cookies for Christmas. You can just make one or two things and your family will enjoy them.

If you make a special cookie each year, then make that and, if possible, participate in a cookie exchange with the neighbors.

This is where everyone brings over a few dozen of their favorite cookies and everyone takes a few of each home – making it possible for everyone to have an array of different Christmas cookies.

The last year that I did this, I was stressed, as usual. I decided to cheat and go to the local grocery store to get sugar cookie refrigerated dough which I would, naturally, sprinkle with red and green sprinkles. They were out of the dough. I had to make refrigerated chocolate chip cookies instead. Wouldn’t you know it – most of the girls had brought red and green sugar cookies!

If all else fails, go to the grocery store and get a tray of cookies. This can save you time and aggravation. And no one will really care.

CHRISTMAS DINNER

One year, I wanted to have what I called a “Victorian Christmas.” I watched “A Christmas Carol” once too often and decided I wanted to replicate the goose, the plum pudding and the whole bit.

In our area, we had turkeys at the stores so I had to go to a butcher for the goose. I ordered it beforehand and on Christmas eve I picked it up. He gave me explicit instructions on how to cook it, which I promptly forgot the minute I walked out of his store.

I also purchased plum pudding in a can and hard sauce to go with it. I envisioned myself with a fully cooked goose, all the trimmings and last but not least, bringing out a flaming plum pudding with the holly stuck in it for all to gasp in awe.

My parents and grandmother came over to help. I insisted that the goose only needed 20 minutes to cook. My grandmother said this was impossible, but hey, what did she know? She had only been cooking for 60 years.

I made an orange sauce that came out of a recipe book that my mother had to keep stirring. I made stuffing. I made potatoes and vegetables. I had egg nog and even caviar and imported cheeses. It was sort of an upscale Victorian Christmas.

I also had plenty of liquor and the egg nog was spiked. And it was a good thing, too. Because when dinner was finally announced (at the dining room that had been immaculately set) that goose was raw. I had a house full of people and no main course.

Fortunately, they all had plenty to drink beforehand and no one noticed as I tossed the raw goose into the trash. Victorian Christmas was still coming, though. After we ate our vegetarian Christmas dinner, I rose to get the plum pudding. I didn’t realize that I had to cook it and had no idea how to do this. So that went in the trash, too.

Fortunately, someone brought over a pie. When it was all over, my in laws stumbled out the door and we actually laughed about this.

Over the years, I have learned to cook poultry and have made some splendid Christmas dinners. I even replicated the “Victorian Christmas” the next year, but my in-laws begged off. The goose was cooked this time, but I didn’t care for it – it was too greasy.

The plum pudding was like fruitcake and not to my liking at all. I stopped the idea of the “perfect” Christmas and cooked stuff that my family liked.

Here are some tips on how I de-stressed Christmas dinner through the years:

1. Get a turkey with a pop up timer. It will pop up when done. Cook it 20 minutes to the pound at 325 in the oven. It is the easiest thing in the world to make. Be sure to remove the giblets, neck and heart. They are in bags, usually. Cook it in the morning, wrap it in foil leaving it on the carcass until you are ready to slice it and it will not be dry. Baste it often.

2. Use pre-made stuffing and a tube of breakfast sage sausage. Mix it together and stuff it in the bird. It makes an excellent stuffing with the home made touch.

3. Make some greens, some corn and plenty of mashed potatoes. I also make roasted potatoes.

4. Buy the pies from the grocery store. One year I made a pumpkin pie from the pumpkin. Okay, it was good. But not good enough to pass up the convenience of the store bought pie. Quit stressing. Pie is pie and the grocery store makes good ones.

5. Buy egg nog. I made egg nog from scratch one year and it was very thin. We all preferred the store bought variety.

6. Skip the caviar. No one but me ate it every year and even I was choking it down. Get shrimp rings instead.

7. Have plenty of liquor on hand. No one will notice the food.

8. Order the meal from the grocery store. Many stores will give you a fully cooked meal for what it would cost to make it. I did this one year and everyone loved it.

9. Start your own weird tradition. After watching “A Christmas Story” I decided it would be fun to have Chinese food for Christmas. So we had that for two years in a row. My kids still remember this strange occurrence and it sure saved me time.

10. Use the heat and serve rolls. Every year, I always forget the rolls. So I started using the heat and serve rolls to make up for this constant lapse of memory.

Christmas dinner is about being with your family. Give thanks that you are all together for this Christmas Present. Wish for more Christmases yet to come. Be happy that you are all inside a warm home and enjoying your time together, even if you have no main course.

You can learn to have a Merry Christmas if you start to realize about the reason for the holiday.

Even if you are not a religious person, you can still appreciate the fact that you are with family, that everyone is together for this day and that even if the food is not the greatest, you have something to eat.

Christmas has nothing to do with decorating. It doesn’t matter if your tree is perfect if no one gets to enjoy it. Better to have an imperfect tree that is loved.

Christmas is not about gifts. The best gifts you give are always from the heart and are unexpected. Yes, you are expected to give gifts, but do not allow the quest for gifts stress you out and destroy the holiday magic.

Christmas is not about how much you can pack in to the season to make it perfect, but about those with whom you share these experiences.

Christmas is not about holding on to old traditions, but making new traditions that will continue to grow through the years.

This Christmas, as I have my shopping done, my decorations up and am no longer stressed about the holidays.

Remember that nothing is perfect, that you can live without a main course, that you can do your shopping online but the best gifts are those that come from the heart.

And above all, that this is a season of joy. Do not lose sight of what it is that you are celebrating this Christmas. Enjoy old traditions but be open to new ones as well.

And above all, have yourself a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

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Reading Book Memes with Belle of Beauty and the Beast

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1. At the Thrift Bookstore

Me going back to the thrift bookstore and looking for that insane deal book I hid behind other books so no one can buy them before me.

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2. Me getting all dolled up to read a book.

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3. Me at the bookstore recommending books to customers like I’m a staff.

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4. When you’re worried about lending your book.

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5. When you finally get your hands on the book you’ve been dying to read.

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6. Me at the bookstore.

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7. When the author kills your favorite character.

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Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur Quotes

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“Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur is a collection of poetry about love, loss, trauma, abuse, healing, and femininity.

It is split into four chapters each chapter serves a different purpose deals with a different pain heals a different heartache milk and honey takes readers through a journey of the most bitter moments in life and finds sweetness in them because there is sweetness everywhere if you are just willing to look”

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“you have sadness

living in places

sadness shouldn’t live”

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“you might not have been my first love

but you were the love that made

all the other loves

irrelevant”

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“how do you turn

a forest fire like me

so soft i turn into

running water”

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“your name is

the strongest

positive and negative

connotation in any language

it either lights me up or

leaves me aching for days”

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“when i am sad

i don’t cry i pour

when i am happy

i don’t smile i glow

when i am angry

i don’t yell i burn”

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“when my heart is broken

i don’t grieve

i shatter”

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“loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself”

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“the world

gives you

so much pain

and here you are

making gold out of it”

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“for you to see beauty here

does not mean

there is beauty in me

it means there is beauty rooted

so deep within you

you can’t help but

see it everywhere”

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“your art

is not about how many people

like your work

your art

is about

if your heart likes your work

if your soul likes your work

it’s about how honest

you are with yourself

and you

must never

trade honesty

for relatability”

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-from Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur

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